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I'm a mess; you're a mess © copyright James N. Watkins. All rights reserved. From www.jameswatkins.com; hosted by GospelCom.net Jim is an award-winning author, popular speaker, and one great big mess. Here are his notes from a mess-age of encouragement if you're a mess, too. (Pic: Jim's dark side) This year, I’ve decided to go all out with my Top Ten list of things I’m giving up for Lent:
9. Sushi 8. Adam Sandler movies 7. Multi-level marketing schemes 6. UFO abductions 5. Golf pants and clip-on ties 4. Rap music 3. Body piercing (other than the usual household repair accidents) 2. Political correctness 1. Cats I have a writer friend who tried to give up poverty for Lent, but then her daughter started college and she failed at even that. Psalm 51 is the reading for our Lenten series on holiness. It’s a great Psalm for all of us who can’t keep our Lenten resolutions. And, instead of a twelve step program, this has only three. First is . . . 1. Recognize the mess Psalm 51:1-3 reads:
David’s life was bigger mess than the Jackson family-the Michael Jackson and Jessie Jackson families. David has committed adultery with Bathsheba while he’s married to Michal, who was a 'gift' from King Saul. Some commentators believe David had nearly 100 wives, including the seven mentioned specifically in scripture. Bathsheba tells David she’s pregnant and her husband has been off to war, so she knows it’s not Uriah’s. So, David as Commander in Chief pulls some strings to give Uriah some R+R at home. But Uriah won’t go home to his wife while his comrades are still in battle. So, David sends Uriah back to the front with a sealed message that says, make sure this guy comes back in a body bag. So, with Uriah dead, David takes Bathsheba for one of his multiple wives! At this point of the message, we all should be feeling pretty 'spur-tal.' I haven’t had an affair. I don’t have 100 wives. I’ve never contracted a ‘hit’ on my lover’s husband. Yep, I’m pretty 'spur-tal' But look at verse four:
Now wait a minute! How about sinning against Uriah? David got his wife pregnant and then had him killed. But every sin we commit, is first a sin against God his desires for us. In The Lord’s Prayer in Luke, Jesus says 'Forgive us our hamartia as we forgive those who hamartia against us. It’s the same Greek word Paul uses in Romans 3:23: 'all have sinned an come short of the glory of God.' Keith Drury calls these the 'sins of falling shorts.' And we all fall short of God’s glory. Let’s say on the north wall is standing Adolph Hitler, who ordered the extermination of six million Jews. On the south wall is standing Mother Teresa. Now, where would you place King David? And, most important, where would you place yourself? I’m somewhere between King David and Mother Teresa. But here’s where we 'fall short' of God’s glory. We’re in northern Indiana, but God is somewhere south of Miami! Compared to God, we’re all a mess! In the past few weeks [at our church] there have been several public confessions of relationship problems, marital problems, financial problems, and spiritual problems. That’s encouraging. Because until we recognize that we have a need we are not making any progress in solving it. And until we make our need known we can’t enjoy the prayer support of our church family. Brennan Manning has written two of my favorite books, Abba’s Child and Ruthless Truth. He’s a recovering alcoholic priest and is just so honest about his spiritual journey. He writes, “[When we refuse to take moral responsibility for our actions and thoughts we] can only pretend we are sinners, and thus only pretend we are forgiven. The Great Awakening during the 1740’s in New England occurred when Jonathon Edwards delivered his famous sermon, 'Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God.' It certainly stresses the mess we are in!
O sinner! Consider the fearful danger you are in: it is a great furnace of wrath, a wide and bottomless pit, full of the fire of wrath, that you are held over in the hand of that God, whose wrath is provoked and incensed as much against you, as against many of the damned in hell. You hang by a slender thread, with the flames of divine wrath flashing about it, and ready every moment to singe it, and burn it asunder; and you have no interest in any Mediator, and nothing to lay hold of to save yourself, nothing to keep off the flames of wrath, nothing of your own, nothing that you ever have done, nothing that you can do, to induce God to spare you one moment. Brennan Manning offers a softer version of that concept:
The fear of the Lord prompts . . . silent reverence, radical amazement, and affectionate awe at the infinite goodness of God' Hopefully you said I’m a mess with as much feeling and sincerity as you said You’re a mess. So, Hi, I’m Jim. I’m a mess. But here’s the good news. 2. Recall the mess-age Although we’re a mess - and deserving of hell - we’re a loved mess! Notice verse 1 in Psalm 51 again:
The Psalmist first acknowledges God’s mercy. The Hebrew word is hesed which means 'to have mercy on,' 'to show mercy toward,' but the most common definition is 'loving kindness.' Mercy is to empathize with another’s pain. I can empathize with Don Grubaugh when he passes his annual kidney stone, since I’ve had one. Mercy is also not getting what we deserve. Convicted criminals throw themselves on 'the mercy of the court.' Justice has probably been served in the 14-year-old killing a 6-year old. I’m not sure life without parole is merciful. We are that spider being held over the fire of hell. And it’s only God’s mercy that doesn’t send us there right now. The Psalmist also talks about God’s unfailing love. Paul writes in Romans 5:1-8
Brennan Manning writes in Abba’s Child
We do not have to do anything, except let our unworthy, ungrateful selves be loved as we are. The Psalmist praises God, not only for His unfailing love, but 'compassion.' The Hebrew word hamal translated 'compassion' also means 'to show pity,' 'to show mercy, grace.' So, where would you put the rebellious Israelites on our scale? Isaiah 4:13-15 reads:
Unfortunately, the message gets distorted by God’s messengers. You’ve probably seen evangelists foaming at the mouth as they preach their version of 'Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God.' On the other extreme, you’re probably seen the TV evangelists who just drip with God’s unconditional love The reality is somewhere in the middle. Yes, God is loving, but He’s also just. Yes, Wesleyans profess to be 'entirely sanctified' and we still fall short of God’s perfection which, again, is somewhere south of Miami. And somewhere between radio preacher Steve Brown calling himself 'the chief of sinners' and arrogant holiness preachers claiming to be above sin (including the 'sins of falling shorts'), there needs to be a balance. But the balance won’t come by simply listening to the message of holiness as great as that is. A spiritual director told Brennan Manning, 'You’ve got enough insights to last you three hundred years. The most urgent need in your life is to trust what you have received.' And that brings us to the third step . . . 3. Receive the Messiah In Psalm 51:7-12, David prays:
Only a Mess-iah can thoroughly and effectively deal with mess-es. So, here’s my main point. Mess-ages for mess-es are good. And I’m guessing this isn’t the first message you’ve ever heard on Psalm 51. But I’m guessing that most of the others dealt with David and his repentance. We need to study Bible stories with God as the focus. (I’ve sometimes been guilty of stressing Bible characters without adequately focusing on God’s character.) So, yes, this is a story of a big mess with adultery and murder. But more important, it’s the story of an even bigger Mess-iah with mercy, unfailing love, and compassion. We can’t hear enough mess-ages to purify, cleanse, wash, give us back our joy, remove the stain of all guilt, create in us a clean heart, and renew a right spirit within us. The mess-age of holiness is wonderful. I believe it. But a holy Messiah is the only way real holiness will occur in our messy lives. So, please repeat after me, We’re a mess. But we have a Messiah!
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