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11.01.06

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Wednesday, November 7, 2006
abortion ban voted down, gay marriage bans approved

South Dakota's ban on virtually all abortions, except for life of the mother, was voted down 55-45 percent. Arizona was the only state to vote down a proposed gay marriage ban (seven other states voted for the ban, joining twenty other states with bans on the books). Some thoughts on the morning after:
Fight against abortion will be won incrementally
Fight against gay marriage won't be won by confrontation



4:30 pm EST Tuesday, November 7, 2006
'oops! I divorced again'

Britney Spears has filed for divorce from her husband Kevin Federline, citing "irreconcilable differences." It's always sad to hear of any marriage break up. Here are some past columns on Britney, divorce, love songs, and making marriage last . . .
How to make love last
Top ten secrets to staying married thirty years
Marriage advice from Brad and Jen
Top ten reasons I'm not divorcing my wife
Top ten ways that Britney can be considered a serious musician
Federal legislation proposed for truth in love songs



Election Day, November 7, 2006
whether your candidates win or lose . . .

• . . . I urge you, first of all, to pray for . . . kings and all others who are in authority, so that we can live in peace and quietness, in godliness and dignity (1 Timothy 2 NLT).
• . . . God is in control no matter who is elected (reflections from 2004)



Monday, November 6, 2006
deny condemned saddam hussein 'martyr' status

No one—except radical Sunnis— would deny that former Iraqi dictator, Saddam Hussein, deserves to hang for the cold-blooded killing of 148 Shiites and a third more tortured to death in just one of his murderous tirades. But I would plead for his life on both a pragmatic and philosophical basis. First, just as 9/11 conspirator Zacarias Moussaoui hoped to become a martyr for Islam, Saddam's supporters believe he too will become a unifying martyr in the cause of jihad against the western world. What better punishment for Moussaoui and Saddam than to be denied their delusions with life in prison without parole. Second, I have some . . .
Serious questions concerning capital punishment
And some thoughts on the Iraq war



Sunday, November 5, 2006
pedestals

Thousands
   cheer,
   chant,
   and clap
   as one of their own
   is proudly carried toward the
   lofty pedestal.
The audience
   urges him
   up the stairway,
   step by step,
   higher and higher,
   far above the masses
   on the prominent platform.
The media is there
   with lights,
   cameras
   and prime-time coverage.
Publishers huddle
   around the base,
   for they know
   pedestal-people
   sell well.
The crowds
   on satellite hook-ups
   hang on
   every last word,
   for he seems
   so close to eternity.
Yet he feels
   unsure,
   unworthy,
   afraid
   and very alone . . .
But at that height
   no one notices,
   no one questions,
   no one confronts.
And so,
   in a split second,
   the trap door swings,
   the noose tightens,
   the crowd gasps.
Undeterred, the mob moves on
   to build more pedestals;
   to encourage another
   of their own
   up the starlit steps.
But mostly
   to wonder
   why those
   at the pinnacle
   keep falling
   from the heights.
© 1988 James N. Watkins


Comments

I've been overwhelmed at the positive response to this free verse I wrote following the Jim Bakker scandal nearly twenty years ago. Several have asked for reprint rights. Visit
press room for details. Here's the only email questioning the premise:
    If I drop a hammer on my toe, it hardly makes sense to blame the hammer for my pain. The same goes for pedestals. If I allow those around me to build a pedestal for me to stand upon and then choose to do so. Who's fault is it when the world discovers I don't have what it takes to stand on it? Not the whistleblowers for revealing my deception. Not the media for reporting on it. Sadly, the fault is mine alone.

    sreid2@sympatico.ca (November 6, 2006)

    Good point, Sean.

    Yes, Haggard is responsible for his self-described deceipt, lies and sexual immorality. No question!

    But the Bible teaches that we are also responsible for our brothers and sisters in Christ. The pedestal builders need be careful "so that [they] will not cause [anyone] to fall" (1 Corinthians 8:13). Paul writes it is wrong to do "anything that causes someone else to stumble" (Romans 14:20 and 1 Corinthians 10:32).

    Having worked in Christian publishing for thirty years and as a denominational exectutive for a few, I know first hand the pressure they put on their "rising stars" and the little concern they exhibit in accountability, discipleship, protection or even prayer support for that person. There are few, if any, safety harnesses for those at the heights. That's our responsibility (Galatians 6:1-2).


2:30 PM EST Friday, November 3, 2006
pastor admits buying meth; prostitute fails polygraph test

TheDenverChannel.com is reporting that:


The Rev. Ted Haggard admitted Friday that he bought methamphetamine from a male prostitute but said he never used it.

The admission came as the self-professed prostitute flunked a lie detector test about having sex with Haggard.

Let's pray the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, is quickly revealed! In the meantime, scroll down for commentary and news links.
TheDenverChannel.com report
National Association of Evangelicals' press release



8 AM EST Friday, November 3, 2006
evangelical leader resigns over allegations of gay prostitution

The Associated Press is reporting this morning:


COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. Nov 3, 2006 (AP)— The president of the National Association of Evangelicals, an outspoken opponent of gay marriage, has given up his post while a church panel investigates allegations he paid a man for sex.
The Rev. Ted Haggard resigned as president of the 30 million-member association Thursday after being accused of paying the man for monthly trysts over the past three years.

Haggard, a married father of five, denied the allegations, but also stepped aside as head of his 14,000-member New Life Church pending an investigation.

"I am voluntarily stepping aside from leadership so that the overseer process can be allowed to proceed with integrity," he said in a statement. "I hope to be able to discuss this matter in more detail at a later date. In the interim, I will seek both spiritual advice and guidance."

The acting senior pastor at New Life, Ross Parsley, told KKTV-TV of Colorado Springs that Haggard admitted that some of the accusations were true.

"I just know that there has been some admission of indiscretion, not admission to all of the material that has been discussed but there is an admission of some guilt," Parsley told the station.

I'm saddened by the allegations, although after numerous evangelical leaders have admitted to sexual sin, I'm not surprised. Deeply saddened, but not surprised.

Some things to keep in mind. First and foremost, Haggard is innocent until proven guilty. Second, Christians need to be praying for Haggard, his family, his 14,000-member church, the National Association of Evangelicals, Christians who may have their faith in the church shaken by these allegations, and don't forget the accuser, Mike Jones.

Here are some thoughts on sexual allegations, as well as news links.
Some thoughts on not judging, but being a good juror
Some thoughts on the media coverage of these allegations
Some thoughts on the NAE's lack of response to these allegations
Some thoughts on homosexual behavior
Some thoughts from Craig von Buseck at CBN.com [off site]
Share your thoughts
ABC News coverage [off site]
Christianity Today's coverage [off site]
Rocky Mountain News coverage [off site]
National Association of Evangelicals site [As of 8:00 AM EST Friday, there is no mention of the allegations or resignation on the site.]
New Life Church's response to allegations



Friday, November 3, 2006
november 'national suicide month'

The hours of daylight are getting shorter, the temperatures are plummeting, and many face the upcoming holidays with a sense of grief over the past year's deaths or breakups. Perhaps this is why there are more reported suicides in November than any other month—and why my site on suicide has been getting heavy traffic the past few days. It can be a depressing time of year, so here are some resources:
If you're feeling depressed
If you're questioning your faith
If you're having marital problems
If you or a friend are considering suicide



Thursday, November 2, 2006
on next week's ballot: strong anti-abortion bill

South Dakota's strong anti-abortion bill could reignite the embers of the pro-life movement—and send the issue to the Supreme Court—or throw cold water on it.
Some thoughts on the issue
Sixteen questions abortion advocates would rather duck [guest editorial]
Newspaper coverage from Union Tribune [off site]



5 PM EST Wednesday, November 1, 2006
kerry, please read my five rules for stupid remarks

John Kerry claims he intended to insult the president rather than U.S. troops by saying, and I quote, "You know, education, if you make the most of it, you study hard, you do your homework and you make an effort to be smart, you can do well. If you don't, you get stuck in Iraq." But instead of simply apologizing for what he called a "botched joke," he went into a tirade about losing the 2004 presidential election. Sheesh! Read this column, please!
Five rules for stupid remarks
AP coverage [off site]



Wednesday, November 1, 2006
wwje? who would Jesus elect?

Jesus would ask, what's your record on issues that are important to Me? "I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink? I was a stranger and you invited me ink, I needed clothing and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me. I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sister of mine, you did it for me." Here are some thoughts from the 200 presidential campaign.
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October 15, 2006
last issue's hot topics

The political battle heated up with Michael [Sly] Fox taking on Rush [to Judgment] Limbaugh over stem cell research and the New Jersey Supreme Court ruled that homosexual couples have the same rights as heterosexual married couples. Meanwhile, the BBC's "anti-Christian bias" was exposed, I shared some new Rev. humor columns and my formula for managing time . . . and sanity, plus. . . .
Click here to go back in time to October 15, 2006



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