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April 21, 2007: Blog, ezine, or whatever . . .
james watkins' heavy topics with a light touch

XENA, WARRIOR PRINCESS, PUTS BLONDE MALE IN HIS PLACE IN 'WOMEN'S TOWN'

A time to weep, a time to laugh

Catholic leader uses flighting words in moral battle

Code of conduct

Communicate to Change Lives now available

Followers of God never in "limbo"

Hershey kisses four times more exciting than human kind

"Naked in a public building"

Proposed "Women's Town" to put men in their place [Pic: Xena for mayor?]

Supreme Court decision reignites abortion debate

Three R's for dealing with Computer Fatigue Syndrome

Top ten differences between secretaries and administrative professionals

Would "Biker Jesus" wear helmet?

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Saturday, April 28, 2007
proposed 'women's town' to put men in their place

The department of tourism in China is proposing
Women's Town, where, and I quote, "Women rule and men obey." (I'm not making this up!)

According to a spokeman for the 26-million-dollar project, "Traditional women dominate and men have to be obedient in the areas of Sichuan province and Chongqing, and now we are using it as an idea to attract tourists and boost tourism."

The spokeman—whom I'm assuming is a woman—went on to explain, "Women never make mistakes, and men can never refuse women's requests."

I can only imagine what kind of male tourists Women's Town will attract. I'd much rather live in "Equality Town," where men and women share power, have the same rights and value, and—in short—view each other as equals. So, some thoughts on gender equality . . .
My interview with CBE



Friday, April 27, 2007
'naked in a public building'

A great interview in Writers Digest with Janet Fitch, author of White Oleander which was an “Oprah’s Book Club” book. In it Fitch describes the self-disclosure so necessary for an authentic writer:


You have to work as deeply as you can to give the reader something worth reading, but you’re also showing things about yourself that you’re not pleased with. It’s your flaws, not your strengths that go down in the depths of your books. You’re exposed, like dreaming you’re naked in a public building.

More of interview
Completely revised and updated writers' resources site



Thursday, April 26, 2007
would biker Jesus wear helmet?

BIKER JESUS--REALLY!

I've reported on Chocolate Jesus, Boxer Jesus, and NEA Jesus. Now there's Biker Jesus!

But wait, there's more at WeAreFishermen.com: Rodeo Jesus, Surfer Jesus, Football Jesus, Soccer Jesus, and “Will Work for Food” Jesus.

Is this burn-in-hell blasphemy?

Is this tacky trivialization and crass commercialization of Christ?

And, wouldn't Jesus wear a helmet? (Even if you can die and rise again in three days, Jesus teaches, "Put not the Lord to a foolish test.").

So, what do you think?



Wednesday, April 25, 2007
happy 'administrative professionals' day

I have in my right hand, direct from my home office:

Top ten differences between secretaries and administrative professionals

10. Secretaries make coffee; administrative professionals procure international resources to motivate and empower staff.

9. Secretaries take memos; administrative professionals expedite inter-office communication.

8. Secretaries type letters; administrative professionals facilitate company communication with national and international clients.

7. Secretaries file; administrative professionals manage and organize data for efficient retrieval of corporate records.

6. Secretaries un-jam the copy machines; administrative professionals maintain high-tech equipment vital to day-to-day operations.

5. Secretaries answer the phone; administrative professionals manage communication between staff and customers.

4. Secretaries listen to office gossip and complaints; administrative professionals act as corporate arbitrators and manage conflict between administrators and staff.

3. Secretaries order office supplies; administrative professionals manage inventory of critical corporate resources.

2. Secretaries buy gifts when boss realizes he or she has forgotten spouse's birthday or anniversary; administrative professionals facilitate crisis management at the executive level.

1. Secretaries get little respect in the corporate environment; administrative professionals get just a bit more.

While working at a publishing house, the executives could be gone for days at a time and the company would continue operating just fine. But if any administrative professional was gone for more than an afternoon, the house collapsed. So, my best wishes go out to all the administrative professionals who keep business, well, in business!

Later in the day . . .
catholic leader uses fighting words in moral battle

KILLER SENDS 'MEDIA KIT' TO NBC

Archbishop Angelo Amato, secretary of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, denounced same-sex marriage as “evil,” called abortion and euthanasia "terrorism with a human face," and described abortion clinics as “slaughterhouses of human beings.” While I agree with Amato’s positions, I’m not sure using inflammatory language will change any minds.

Jesus took on controversial issues, but He was known as being full of truth and grace. That’s why many abortion opponents urge people to refer to
the procedure as “killing” of human life rather than “murder.” And that’s why Fred Phelps is not going to cause any homosexuals to change their ways by proclaiming “God hates fags.”

Not only must we carefully choose our battles, we must just as carefully choose our words so they, like Christ's, are filled with truth and grace.

Some—hopefully gracious—thoughts on . . .
abortion
euthanasia
homosexuality
Fred Phelps (maybe not so gracious)
same-sex unions
speaking with truth and grace

What are your thoughts?

Even later in the day . . .
followers of God never in ‘limbo’

The Pope is about to rule that limbo—the uniquely Catholic teaching of a place between heaven and hell where unbaptised babies are suspended—has no biblical basis.

Those who trust God are never in limbo, although there are times it feels they are suspended in between two events: between jobs, between ministry positions, between diagnosis and treatment, between military deployments, between writing assignments, between relationships, and between [fill in your own personal limbo].

There's no such thing as limbo. Followers of God are where they need to be right now. I know how hard that can be. (I’ve spent most of my life “in between.”) But God is working today in believer’s lives right now. Here are some articles I hope are helpful:
God is never late—but He sure is slow!
God is working—even when your dreams seemingly have died
God rarely answers the "why" question, but He does answer . . .



Tuesday, April 24, 2007
'hershey kisses' four times more exciting than human kind

According to a scientific study by neurophysiologist Dr. David Lewis, dark chocolate creates a buzz that lasts four times longer than kissing. "While we fully expected chocolate—especially dark chocolate—to increase heart rates due to the fact it contains some highly stimulating substances, both the length of the increase together with the powerful effects it had on the mind were something none of us had anticipated."

The 12 young volunteers reported resting heart rates increased slightly with kissing, but with chocolate many doubled their heart rates from 60 to 140 beats per minute.

The report is unclear whether the kissing couples were romantically involved or simply lab partners. And a laboratory is not the most stimulating environment—unless, of course, you’re a high school couple making out between classes in the Chem lab.

And no indication if white chocolate—which shouldn’t even be classified as “chocolate”—had any effect. Still, a fascinating study for true chocoholics.

The chocolate research
The chocolate diet
The chocolate cure for high cholesterol



VA TECH STUDENT MOURNS LOSS
HANNAH CELEBRATES SECOND BIRTHDAY

Monday, April 23, 2007
a time to weep, a time to laugh

Today is granddaughter, Hannah's, second birthday. One week ago today, 32 students and teachers were murdered at Virginia Tech. The writer of Ecclesiastes reminds us:

    To every thing there is a season,
        and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
    A time to weep, a time to laugh;
        a time to mourn, a time to dance . . .

A time to weep, to mourn: resources for dealing with loss after VA Tech killings
A time to dance: pics of Micah and Hannah's second birthday party
A time to laugh: on being a "papaw" and The Papoose-Driven Life
[Left pic: AP]



Saturday, April 21, 2007
communicate to change lives now available


COMMUNICATE TO CHANGE LIVES


My lastest book is now available! Here's what the former editor of Decision magazine writes:

“I laughed, I gulped, and I learned as I read Jim’s book. As a writer, speaker, and teacher of writing, Jim knows what he is talking about. Best of all, he knows how to put the teaching at a level that we can easily grasp and apply. Here’s the book that will help you to change lives.” Roger Palms.

Read about the book and seminar by the same name
Read an excerpt: Using Psychological Appeals
Buy a copy from Wesleyan Publishing House 1-800-4-WESLEY

Later . . .
supreme court decision reignites abortion debate

Monday's
horrific killings at Virginia Tech reignited the gun control debate. Wednesday's 5-4 decision to uphold the ban on "partial birth" abortion is doing the same for abortion. Presidential candidate's Hillary Clinton, John Edwards and Barack Obama all expressed their disagreement with the decision while Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mit Romney voiced their approval.
Some thoughts on the issue
Pro-life victory will be incremental
Sixteen questions abortion advocates would rather duck
AP report on decision

After ten hours at computer . . .
three rs for dealing with computer fatigue syndrome

I didn't know that the eyestrain, dizziness, headaches, low energy, and neck, back, and shoulder pain of working on a computer had a name. Yep, 'computer fatigue syndrome.' Doctors suggest that you:
Readjust your screen so your eyes look down slightly
Refocus your eyes on something far away regularly
Remove yourself from your work area at least once an hour



April 9, 2007
last issue's hot topics

The horrific killings at Virginia Tech over-shadowed virtually everything else: our tenth year online; the Imus, Duke rape case and stem cell controversies; the roots of the Iraq crisis; and Mother Nature's PMS.
Click here to go back in time to April 9, 2007. (Then again, maybe you'd rather not!)



March 2007
last month's top ten sites

I have in my right hand, direct from my home office, last month's top ten sites . . .
• 1
Home page / blog
• 2 "Adult site" for adults
• 3 "Jim Shorts" on sex
• 4 Quips and quotes of encouragement
• 5 Top ten reasons I'm not divorcing my wife
• 6 Women in ministry issues
• 7 "Jim Shorts" on spirituality
• 8 Is it a life or a choice?
• 9 "Jim Shorts" last column
• 10 "I just want to die" (suicide)



And finally . . .
code, copyrights, comments, contributions . . .

We subscribe to proposed 'blogger's code of conduct' I'm glad to see the online community developing a set of guidelines to bring civility and credibility to the blogsphere. I've adapted the proposed tenants (printed in bold) to create my own code of conduct.


1. Responsibility for our own words First, I believe that, as a follower of Christ, I am responsible to "speak the truth in love" and to "let all [my] conversation be full of grace." Jesus never backed away from controversial subjects, but He was "full of truth and grace." Second, I believe plagiarism is stealing and thus a violation of the eighth commandment. All material on my site is original with me unless credited to someone else. And third, as a journalist, I must be objective, accurate (I will verify all facts with at least two reliable sources) and fair (I will quote people in context and strive to present their position accurately).

2. Nothing we wouldn't say in person We must be as responsible and civil we are in the real world. I believe that personal attacks, name-calling, profane or vulgar language, and racist, sexist and ethnic humor have no place in the real or virtual worlds.

3. Encouragement of responses (That's currently not in the code, but it should be!) I include guest's comments at the end of articles and columns as well as encouraging comments on my host's online discussion board.

4. No anonymous comments Commenters to supply a valid email address before they can post, though I allow commenters to identify themselves with an alias, rather than their real name for sensitive issues.

5. Discretion to delete comments I refuse to post comments that do not conform to my own code in point 2.

6. Vigorous enforcement of blog hosts' terms of service

7. Nothing harmful We will not engage in any activity that would cause physical, mental, social or spiritual harm or encourage anyone to do the same.

I'll probably be tweaking this as I go along, but for now, those are the promises I'm making to you as a guest on my site.

Blogger's Code of Conduct [off site]
Legal Guide for Bloggers (also very good!) [off site]
Some thoughts on blogging and responsibility

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